Friday, April 29, 2011

Same old, same old. And I mean that in the best possible way...

Nope, I don't update too frequently. Very busy with work and life. Plus, really... all is well. How exciting is that? Our son turned five in early April and will be starting Kindergarten in September. He's bright and precocious, although can be lazy. It still drives me crazy that he doesn't do what I ask him to WHEN I ask him to do it. I'm not sure if that's an age thing, a boy thing, an Aries thing, or all combined...but he's a good boy. He's very healthy, for which we are exceedingly grateful every day.

Finally, after nearly TWO YEARS he's back to a better sleeping routine! We can now put him to bed in his bed, awake and say good night. He has returned to sleeping through the night. When he does wake up, usually for some water, he'll go back to bed without much ado. What sheer bliss! Wow, that's nice. :)

Life is a constant adjustment, as Bee grows and develops from a toddler to preschooler, from a baby to little boy to big boy. He's long and lean, so his pants often wind up short long before he outgrows the waistband. He's funny and all boy - he loves his action figures, super heroes and sports. He's good with girls, though and usually gentle with them, although sometimes he needs reminding. He's fascinated by the body. He was assigned to represent the letter "S" in his Nursery School Parade. We thought, surely he'll be Superman - he has a big red "S" on his chest! (And we have a Superman costume rather handy). However, Bee chose to be a skeleton instead. He has skeleton pajamas, but, since his dad and I work with bones and anatomy a great deal in our line of work, we didn't want him to feel he had to choose this. We suggested other options - spider, Spider-man, sun, Superman... No, he really wanted to be a skeleton! He also pointed out some "s" bones - skull, scapula, scaphoid, sacrum. Okay, yes, technically the skull is comprised up of many bones, but it sufficed for Nursery School. All went well ans I actually remembered to record it on video.

We get to see our extended family once a year at Christmastime. Bee has a cousin who is now 19 months! We stay connected on the FB, and need to S*kype more often, but we all do what we can with our schedules. My cousin who donated her eggs to get Bee here is well. She graduated and is now a practitioner in her field, owning her own home and paying off her student loans. She was kind enough to call and wish Bee a happy birthday, and we did the same on her day (they're both born in the same month). We wonder at which age it would be best to tell him the story of how he got here. He's seen the ultrasound pictures, from the two transferred embryos to right before he was born and he's fascinated. We want to disclose at a good stage of his emotional development, not too early that he can't understand it, but not too old that he'll wonder why we waited so long. If anyone has some suggestions, I'd be grateful. I don't think anyone actually reads this anymore, but I'm throwing it out there!

Be well, everyone and Happy Spring. May you all find your happiness in life.

4 Comments:

At 4/30/2011 9:28 PM, Blogger CecilyK said...

Nice to see an update from you, my dear! So glad all is well. :D

 
At 4/03/2012 9:46 AM, Blogger katyc67 said...

Hi Anna-
I am just coming across your blog now, as I was searching "cousin donor egg". I have an almost 4 yo daughter through IVF, and have had 9 failed IVFs in trying to give her a sibling. I wish so much I had turned to donor egg instead of continued tries with my own (old) eggs. I have a young cousin who I often think I should have asked. Thanks for your blog, it is interesting for me to read.
Katy

 
At 2/28/2014 6:54 PM, Blogger Muzi Chen said...

Dear Anna,

Please allow me to introduce myself. My name is Muzi Chen, a member of the Family Communication Project (FCP) working with Dr. Martha Rueter at the University of Minnesota. I visited your blog and that was where I found your contact information.

The Family Communication Project is a collaborative research effort lead by Dr. Rueter. Our FCP team includes researchers from across the U.S. and the families who participate in FCP research studies. If you would like to learn more about the FCP, you can visit our website at http://www.cehd.umn.edu/fsos/projects/fcp/ or email Dr. Rueter at mrueter@umn.edu or you can ask me any questions you might have.

I’m approaching you to see if you would like to participate in our latest study. This is a study of how family communication promotes the health and well-being of children aged 4 – 17 years who were conceived using donor gametes. Being a participant in this study involves filling out a 20-minute online survey about your child(ren) and your experiences as a parent.

To take part in this study, you can complete the online survey at: http://www.cehd.umn.edu/fsos/projects/fcp/survey.html

We also hope you could pass this message on to other parents who would be eligible for this FCP study.

Thank you so much for your time and participation!

Muzi Chen and the Family Communication Project Research Team

 
At 10/19/2014 8:34 PM, Blogger Jessah @ Dreaming of Dimples said...

It doesn't look like you post much anymore….but I love reading about your boy! Hope you're both doing well.

 

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